Self-Discipline

[Coaching Lesson #3 from our Serving Leadership Development Program—Beginning the Journey, Phase 1]

Self-discipline is the ability to regulate your behavior by principle rather than impulse, reason rather than emotion, and long-range results rather than immediate gratification.

Self-discipline is doing what is right and best, not what is easiest. You are disciplined when you choose to do the right things and make them a habit.

Case Study: Samson—A Leader Who Lacked Self-Discipline (Judges 16:1-20)

Samson started out as a disciplined man (Judges 13:24-25)—a Nazarite who was known for abstinence from wine and strong drink, for refraining from cutting his hair, and for avoidance of contact with the dead. He should have kept himself from instant gratification but struggled with a weakness for women. This ultimately led to the breaking of his vow on numerous occasions.

As Samson grew older, he left the foundation of self-discipline and lustfully consumed whatever he wanted whether it was food, women, or strong drink. His lack of self-discipline cost him his leadership and eventually his life.

Discipline does not automatically make someone a leader, but no one can remain a leader very long without it. More Christian leaders have failed from poor self-discipline than from bad theology, poor preaching, or a lack of ministry skills.

Remember, you must be able to lead yourself before leading others.

Discussion Questions:

1. Read 1 Corinthians 9:24-27. How does one develop self-discipline?
2. Why is self-discipline a valuable trait for a leader?
3. What are some areas in your life where you need to develop self-discipline?